We find seeking the guidance of others is another ancient pathway of those who follow Jesus’ Way. “And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, all the more as you see the Day drawing near.” Hebrews 10:25 ESV
Left to ourselves we can make tragic choices. With guidance from others, we can reduce the chances a bit.
Consider the story of a couple who decided to move far away from the home and loving community where they had lived for over 30 years. It was the home in which they were married, raised a family, and had grown deep roots in their church and community.
The move seemed to make a lot of sense from a financial side — and the couple was in agreement. So they listed their home and bought a beautiful new home in a newer community.
Twenty years later over dinner, the wife said to her husband, “I never wanted to move from our old home!” Her husband replied, “I didn’t either! I thought you did, so I went along with it.”
Consider now the story of a couple who were faced with an opportunity to work and serve far away from family, friends, and everything familiar. Not only did they talk honestly and openly with each other, but they also called together 20 long-time friends and neighbors. Following a meal of soup and bread, the couple shared the opportunity they were considering and invited each person to ask questions and give feedback.
The friends asked good and sometimes hard questions. The couple shared how God was opening doors for service and each was on board with it so long as it was clear God was in it. Based on what the couple shared, each person strongly encouraged the couple to go.
The encouragement and prayers of friends and family allowed the couple to make a wise decision and to thrive for many years in a hard but fruitful season of service.
God can speak to us through the counsel of others. Yes, the Day is drawing near.
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Let’s Pray
I’m not sure where to start with this ancient pathway, God. My “Lone Ranger” mentality recoils at inviting others in on what seems to be my private stuff. I do know we’ve made some hasty decisions. So, as with some of the other ancient pathways, I will say: “Help me God to be willing to seek guidance from trusted friends.” Amen
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